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Welcome to Relationship Rehab, news.com.au’s weekly column solving all your romantic problems, no holds barred. This week, our resident sexologist Isiah McKimmie hears from a woman facing a frustrating sex problem with her husband.
Question: This is something so embarrassing to talk about, even my husband and I don’t mention it. We got married four years ago, but we‘ve never had sex. We wanted to wait until our wedding night to have sex, because this is important in our religion. But when we tried, it wasn’t possible. We tried a few times after that, but even then it wasn’t possible. His penis just couldn’t go inside of me. Our family is asking when we’re going to have kids. I know my husband is frustrated. I’m worried about our future together if we can never do this.